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25 February 2014

The Building That Looks Down on Airplanes



Sunshine City is a commercial complex that features a variety of facilities including an office building, aquarium, observatory, and shopping center. The Sunshine Building was built on the site where Suginamo Prison — where Mr. Makiguichi and Mr. Toda were imprisoned — once was.


When you don't feel like doing gongyo or daimoku, get on the green train in Tokyo that circles downtown I. and look out for the "Sunshine Building" near K--- station. This was built by someone who did not skip gongyo and daimoku for 30 years.

Once there was man who was so completely down and out that he had made up his mind to commit suicide. He was in debt to his ears, his wife was blind, and his child had problems. But before he died, he wanted to have one last meal of his favorite dish — a vegetable stew called "oden."

As he was walking around town in the evening shadows looking for a stew shop, he noticed a warm, gentle glow of lanterns coming from a place tucked in a corner. There were a number of people milling about. "Ah, a stew shop!" he delightedly mused. He walked briskly toward the light.

As he entered and made his way through the small crowd, he realized he had made a mistake. It was a lecture. When he asked a person nearby, he was told that the speaker was a Mr. Toda.

After listening, the man demanded of Mr. Toda, "If this Nam Myoho-renge-kyo is so powerful, will my financial problems be resolved?! Will my wife see?! Will my child's problems be resolved?!"

To this, Mr. Toda replied: "Don't be ridiculous! If all it did were petty things like that, I wouldn't be doing this! Your financial problems will be resolved! Your wife will be able to see! And your child's problems will be resolved! Not only that, you will become a wealthy man! You will build a building that even looks down on airplanes! Do morning and evening gongyo and chant daimoku every day."

Not because the man believed any of it, but because he was moved by the powerful conviction Mr. Toda had, he began to practice. Although it was difficult at first, he faithfully followed President Toda's instructions. He did not skip gongyo. He did morning and evening gongyo and chanted one and a half hour of daimoku every day.

Sure enough, results began to happen. His financial problems were solved. His wife was no longer blind. His child no longer had such problems. The man even became vice president of a board in his company even though he was not well-educated like most of his peers. He became wealthy. His child became active in the youth division. Things exceeded his expectations.

At the mark of practicing 30 years, he was seen standing on the top of a building, mumbling through tears. The man was standing on the top of a skyscraper that he had built. "It all became true! This building even looks down on airplanes! After 30 years ... Thank you Sensei, thank you Soka Gakkai!"

It wasn't many years later that the man passed away in his 80's, leaving a legacy of consistent practice. But before he did, he often pointed to the skyscraper and said, "This shows the power of daimoku! I am here to say it. So please, do morning and evening gongyo and chant daimoku."

So when you don't feel like doing gongyo or chanting daimoku, take a look at the "Sunshine Building." It's still there.


References:
http://www.gakkaionline.net/Experiences/WorldBuilding.html
http://tw.gigacircle.com/2092835-1


03 February 2014

當工作出現這5個警訊,你應該考慮提出辭呈吧!


本文作者 Elizabeth Mclaughlin 為華爾街前知名律師,隨後轉職位一名經理人教練,她幫助許多專業的經理人在各自的領域提高另一階層的成功。

身為一名幫助其他人進行轉換工作的經理人教練,我常常遇到的第一個問題就是:怎樣知道自己是時候該離開一份正在做的工作? 這是一個需要很仔細並嚴謹考量的決策。在某些特定的情況下,去尋找新工作,會對於你職業生涯或是你的身心靈健康產生一定程度的損害風險。

當有這 5 個信號發生時,我會建議你馬上開始思考採取轉換職場跑道的行動

  • 你的工作沒有發展空間的可能性
你是否被困在一個你被告知沒有機會升職的工作?對於你的工作,你是不是有一些很負面的想法?

身處於一個你沒有機會獲得獎勵還有晉升的工作,儘管你很盡責或是得到了很高的薪水,你只會覺得很沉悶,最糟的情況下還會被炒魷魚或停職。所以,在你還沒有開始面對更多的負面情況時,開始去尋找你新的工作吧!

  • 你的工作已經變成是一種慣例
你是不是每一天都參與那些你認為連你在睡覺時都可以做的工作?你是否已經在一個同樣的工作崗位上 3 年至 5 年了,而且沒有新的機會或者是職責去發展?

特別是在現今的經濟,當很多的企業已經開始瘋狂的創新時,保持自己的最佳狀態以及保有你工作上的本領是很重要的。

一份可以激發你的工作,肯定會讓你的工作變得更加好玩,而不是讓沉悶佔上風

  • 你的工作環境被不好的界限圍繞
什麼是不好的界限?

以下有幾個例子:因為被其他人打擾你的辦公桌,而沒有辦法在無打擾的狀態下去完成你的案子;你工作的環境裏總是圍充斥著許多八卦是非、明爭暗鬥以及辦公室政治;你的同事經常下班後喝醉酒,並且強迫你一起喝;或是你的老闆在辦公室裡有婚外情,甚至影響到其他人。

我經常被問到:是否有可能在存在這些問題的情形下「更換」老闆或是環境?

答案是:很難。

通常,當界限被他人觸犯的工作環境都是被有問題的人領導著,而這些行為是從上層傳遞而來。如果你的工作環境是這樣的話,不要嘗試去修正它,而是馬上去尋找新的工作。

  • 你在生理上、情緒上有很大的壓力
這幾年,我看見因為一直忍耐在高度壓力的環境下工作,直到生病的顧客,有正在增加的趨勢。受到如盲腸以及脫髮等生理上的困擾,或是情緒上如嚴重的沮喪還有焦慮;我也見過依賴酒精或藥物來維持工作的顧客,最後在我這裡接受治療。

如果你看見自己正在這條路上,一定要馬上離開。沒有一份工作值得你用你的健康來換--不管收入有多高,不管有多厲害,不管你一開始有多想要那份工作。待在這樣的環境下,你所經歷的一切只會更加的糟糕。你必須知道你值得更均衡和諧的人生,並且要想盡辦法去達成它。

  • 你的上司有虐待傾向
想都不用想,當你知道每一天有多少位跟我合作的經理人都在忍受上司的虐待行為時,你一定會感到驚訝。

然而,是什麼造成這樣的虐待性行為?

如果你的上司對你咆哮,丟東西,看扁你甚至在別人面前侮辱你;或者是每一天都在威脅你的飯碗時;還有當你受到以各種形式的騷擾時,你的上司就是一個有施虐傾向的人,而你就是正在跟一名有虐待行為的上司工作了。

沒有人應該被這樣對待。很遺憾的,很多的公司都為了利益,又或者是不敢得罪另外一方而忍受著這些行為。

你不必忍受這樣的行為,無論你現在有多大的無力感也好,你是有選擇的

首先就是要修復好你的自尊心。當你被虐待而灌輸了不好的價值觀時,你必須要採取準備離開的行動。重新審視你的履歷表、整理你的面試服裝並且開始寄出申請表格,馬上做

當你下定決心,離開對你沒有意義的工作時,你已經邁向一個更加平衡、成功還有快樂的人生。今天就整頓好自己,告訴這個世界你是個有價值的人,而且你值得更好的未來

  • 採取行動,你將擁抱更棒的人生
對新的機遇保持敞開心胸的態度,還有最重要的是,採取行動

總而言之,有良好的能力、願意付出以及堅定的毅力,你喜愛的工作就會是你的,所以,馬上去爭取吧!


References:
http://techorange.com/2014/01/22/sick-of-your-job-5-signs-its-time-to-quit/
http://www.businessweekly.com.tw/KBlogArticle.aspx?ID=6017&pnumber=1
http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-12288/sick-of-your-job-5-signs-its-time-to-quit.html


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